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ON MEDITATION There are a few well meaning Christian friends who ask me about my leaning towards eastern philosophy and meditation. I w...

Wednesday, July 31, 2013

PARK BENCH SOJOURNER

PARK BENCH SOJOURNER

Bernard Baruch, Statesman and Adviser to US Presidents, in the early nineties, was known for his penchant in sitting at the park bench in La Fayette Park in Washington, and at Central Park in New York City.  Sitting for hours, he would feed the pigeons, and  at times talked to the people he met at the park about government affairs.

A park bench was built in his honor.

Deep thinkers like Baruch have been known to simply withdraw from their usual preoccupation, to find time for quietness and sail in the ocean of thought. 

Productive people know the need for rest.

Is this solitary exercise wasted time?

For the hurried modern man, this may appear to be so, but to others, finding time to be one’s own company, is a way of emotional and mental house cleaning. Doing away with the mind’s clutter, taking hold of what is dear in life, and watching the rhythm of the day as it slowly fades in time.

To rest in the confidence that the Creator of the universe, who ordained the path of the planets and caused the changing of the seasons, is the same God who will likewise see us through the day He has made, is far more heartening than believing that we are mere accidents of nature, or of chance, struggling to scale the mount of meaningless existence.



  

Monday, July 22, 2013

DISCONNECTEDNESS


DISCONNECTEDNESS


The alarming rise of suicides in the wealthy city state of Singapore has been reported recently. There has been a 29 percent increase in the suicide rate mostly by young people, who suffer stress and interpersonal issues.

Despite the wealth and prosperity enjoyed by its inhabitants, Singapore has a high pressure work and school environment.  There is little or insignificant emotional and interpersonal support system, adding more woes, and loneliness, to sufferers of depression in this affluent country of 5 million people. What is interesting is suicide is punishable as an offense under Singapore law, that is, if one survives the attempt, he or she may yet serve a prison term.

We may wonder why in the midst of this affluence and prosperity, in spite of high income and standard of living, the increase in spending, the comfort of material possessions, and easy access to pleasurable pursuits, unhappiness and depression seem to have increased all the more.

I am reminded of an acquaintance who once commented that if he were a rich man he would be very happy with no problems in life and all his troubles would simply go away. I doubt, however, if all his troubles would simply vanish.

In this world we will have troubles, it does not really matter whether one is rich or not. What really matters is the assurance of Christ who said, “I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.”(John 16:33)

The Psalmist David, a King, who by the world’s standard today can be regarded as a powerful and successful figure, was a man after God’s own heart. He did not say he found happiness in his power as the anointed King of his people, or his worldly accomplishment, or possessions. He declared: “Happy is that people whose God is the Lord.”  (Psalm 144:15)

Man has been designed to find fulfillment in connecting with his Creator. Man was not intended to exist in isolation. God created the human family to be the strongest support system which sustains him as he relates to others and to life in this present world. Ultimately, man’s deepest connection is his relationship with his Creator. The increasing isolation and disconnectedness of people in some affluent societies driving them to suicidal acts is too high a price to pay.

Unless man comes to the enlightened realization that there is this gaping hole of emptiness in his heart, which keeps him restless, until he finds rest in his Creator, (St. Augustine’s Confessions) joy and happiness would continue elude him.







Friday, July 19, 2013

You Are Great


You Are Great

The heads of states, the leaders of nations, the captains of industry, the pioneers of science, the scholars and artists, even the religious luminaries,  these are persons we look up to as having accomplished great and earthshaking things.

This thought came to mind, one day, while I was talking to a friend who is fairly a successful man. Most would trade places with him, but over cups of coffee, he poured out his feelings. He felt, he hadn’t accomplished anything yet, of great significance.

I believe he was looking for the real meaning of his life’s work. He felt he could have been a greater person.  I asked him if he wanted to know who might be the ideal  person I consider great in my own eyes. He said he couldn’t be more curious.

I told him she’s no other than my wife, who is a full time housewife, mother, lover, and caregiver. This shook him a little bit.

I should confess I had far greater ambitions like my friend does. Becoming a Christian has changed my perspective. One need not do earthshaking things to find meaning in one’s life. There is meaning in doing the work which God has entrusted to us, in areas we find ourselves. Whether you are running a household with romping kids, or managing a corporation, or debating in Congress, or evangelizing the lost, God is accomplishing far greater things through you, than you can ever imagine.

The great Apostle Paul in his Letters to the Colossians reminds us: Whatever you do, work at it wholeheartedly as though you were doing it for the Lord and not merely for people.” (Colossians 3:23).

The iconic leader of the Afro-American civil rights movement, the late clergyman Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., once said, “Anyone can be great, because anyone can serve.”

To my friend, man, you are great. Cheer up!

Saturday, July 13, 2013

A Visit From The Drunken Master


A Visit From The Drunken Master

This is one lazy Saturday afternoon which I did not imagine to see the Drunken Master.

He comes with a sack half filled with red rice grains. He sees me sitting  under the shade of the old indian mango tree. The little house dog announces his approach by spurts of  barking, which did not bother him.  I shoo the dog. He dumps the sack, sits beside me,  wipes the sweat off his brow.

“This is a bit unusual,” I say.   “To what do I owe the pleasure of your visit?” I ask.

He remains still, looks at me, with a grin. He closes his eyes,  leans back and exhales. Just when I think he has fallen asleep, he speaks.

“A change of scenery will do me some good. Not well to stay very long in my mountain enclave. I need balance.”   

“What’s with the sack?” I ask.

“For you, they are good fibrous grains, “ he says.

“Thank you, your kindness is heartwarming. What will I give in return?” I say.

He looks at the little dog which stares at him.

“Is it true of humans that they always tend to reciprocate, good or ill?” he asks.

“That’s the way it is, here. It’s impolite to receive without giving back. A shame to be offended, unless avenged,” I say. 

 “Holds true to most people?” he asks.

“To most, yes,” I say.

“And to you likewise,” he says.

“ Only  to the good side of it, I have long abandoned the idea of an eye for an eye, too barbaric.” I reply.

The little dog sniffs  his fingers, he pats her.

“No need to do me any favors, on this one, only small talk. Did you go to Bandung? ” he says.

“A long travel, yes,” I say.

“  Tell me your impressions about it,” he says.

“Big, beautiful, ancient city, wonderful scenery, cool temperature, European designed architecture, mainly Dutch influence, luxurious hotels, resorts, cafes and restaurants. Most tourists flock to the factory outlets selling fashion wears. It’s the Paris of Java. Traffic though is terrible.” I say.

He remains quiet closing his eyes as if conjuring the image.

“What’s with Bandung?” I ask.

“ Used to stay there a long time ago, as a diplomatic officer.  The Dutch Colonial Plantation owners spent their holidays there in a place called Jalan Braga. Marcos and Sukarno often met and held talks there. I loved walking the down the street of Braga lined with old colonial buildings built by the Dutch, reminds you of certain sections in Paris. ” he replies.

“Didn’t know you were in the foreign service,” I say.

“I washed out, too much politics, becoming a drunken philosopher suits me well, no regrets.” He says.

He stands, extends a hand, I clasp, “Got to be going, and visit the streets where I grew up. I hear our City has a new Mayor,” he says, “Not a bad day to be sober,” he quips, winks, and walks away.

Photo: portal.mbandung.com




Tuesday, July 9, 2013

From Addiction To Allergy

Saturday I attended the funeral service of a friend whose life had given me a lot to reflect about.

My friend Vicente was once a businessman who was making good in the currency exchange business. His life practically revolved around money. He loved the color of money. He dealt with money everyday.

One day,  criminal elements, attacked him. They shot him at close range. But he did not die. By God’s grace and mercy, he survived despite his wounds. While recovering, he did a lot of thinking. He believed God through this experience was telling him something. It was a wake up call. He had been too much caught up with his  business that he had forgotten about his  relationship with Christ, whom he once received as Lord and Redeemer.

After complete recovery, he closed his business and decided to spend the rest of his remaining years in the service of Christ, until the Master called him home. I remember him telling me that he was once addicted to money, but thanks God, He changed the addiction to an allergy.  

We get easily caught up in the materialism of this world, before we know it, the unbridled  desire for more and more begin to dominate our hearts. Everyday, as Christians we face the crucial choice of setting our minds, on the temporal or the eternal.

The Lord reminds us, that our hearts will always follow what we treasure most.


He said, “Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moths and vermin destroy, and where thieves break in and steal.  But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moths and vermin do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal.  For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” (Matthew 6:19-21)